“I don’t cry. I’m not suppose to do. Why?
Because I’m a man and men don’t cry. But the question is why men cannot cry?
If I cry, people might think that I’m so sensitive and I can’t even handle to be a man. Ideal men don’t do such things, as per our society’s perspective.
But what about me?
Before being a boy or a man , I’m a human being. I have heart. And fortunately, God puts some feelings in it. Just like any of other, it hurts when anything goes wrong. But I have no rights to show that how much depressed I am. My feelings always been untold. Why?
Just stop forcing me to believe that I’m strong because in your dictionary, definition of being strong is ‘don’t let your tears fall by because it will make you weak’ . But I’m getting weaker day by day, because I’m holding onto it.
I’m a son, brother, husband, father and above all I’m a human being, which have feelings. And I won’t let my self to be Abandoned. I will cry. I will cry as hell, so that you can see the pain in me. So, don’t judge me because I’m crying that doesn’t mean that I’m weak. Though I’m strong enough to deal any situation.
AND THEN HIS HOLLOWNESS FALLS ASLEEP!”
Then why our society is questioning over ‘men crying’. If women cry on something, we feel sorry. But on the same side, if men cry, then we started judging them. Why?
The message through this is “Ask what happened if you see someone’s crying. It doesn’t matter either it is man or a woman”.
If someone’s hurt, he/she will Melt Down. Help them. Ask them.